15 Tips On Talking To Women And Attracting Them

Many men are never taught how to talk to women. Because of this many guys go through life without the ability to attract a woman. Here are 15 tips to help make sure you aren’t making mistakes with the
women you’d like to attract:

1. You should talk about “emotional”
topics like childhood memories, future
ambitions, or her passions. These
conversation topics will open up her
emotional floodgates.

2. Women want a guy who is not afraid to
lead her. While talking to a woman
takecontrol of the conversation. Never
wait for her to dictate what you’ll be
talking about.
3. Pay attention to the non verbal cues a
woman is giving you. If you’re standing too
close to her, accidentally spitting when
you talk, or making her feel uncomfortable
in any way… she will send you hints. Pay
attention to them.

4. Remember this motto “Fun not Funny.”
Women are attracted to men who allow
them to have fun. Don’t concentrate on
having the funniest jokes. Concentrate
onshowing them the most excitement and
enjoyment.

5. Tease women. One of the easiest ways
to take a conversation to a fun and flirty
level is to begin to tease women. Think
back to your time on the playground. In
the world of dating… what worked on the
playground is effective all over again.

6. Get intimate with her. Women are
turned on by men who are not afraid to
take a conversation to a personal, intimate
level.

7. Use things like “cold reads” to turn
women on. Women love to hear opinions
about themselves. Tell her what you
observe about her.

8. Avoid complimenting a woman too
much. Women are turned off by men who
come across as “needy.” If you are
complimenting a woman too much she will
think you’re trying to impress her. Which
will have the opposite effect.

9. If you want to know how to talk to
women in a way that doesn’t bore them…
Avoid asking too many “interview” style
questions. Instead state your opinion
about things.

10. Remember: Statements over
questions. Instead of saying “where did
you grow up?” Say “You don’t look like you
grew up around here.” This allows you to
make observations about her and express
your personality.

11. Don’t hide your identity. Don’t be
afraid to talk about whatever you’re
passionate about.

12. Never compliment her on her eyes,
looks, or body.

13. Say something that lets her know that
you view her in a “intimate” way. If you
don’t, you run the risk of winding up in the
“friend zone”.

14. Use conversation “games” to keep the
mood fun and flirtatious. Games can be
anything like “truth or dare” or to less
extreme games like the “5 questions
game”.

15. Don’t give away your hand so fast.
Women like men who are a challenge. If
you want to keep a woman’s interest she
has to feel like she is slowly winning you
over. If she thinks you’re too easy… she’ll
lose interest.

Credit: Young Sahito